Monday, January 30, 2012

Adrianna's going to school!

babies nowadays grow up so fast....they are no longer like what babies are last time.....thanks to the technology, they grown up to be 2-3 years older than their real age......whats worst, ppl start to send the kids to school at 2 nowadays...phewwww.....

looking at my cousins' sons & daughters, they can do spelling, recite some surah, know 1-50, aliff to ya and many more......well, anya also now a-z, 1-11 and sing "sedetik lebih" by anuar zain....hahahaha....looking at this scenario, i'm afraid that if i dont do something, adrianna will be left behind....but to send her to school at the age of 2 and half years is kind of disturbing....i want her to play and play at this age...but at the same time, i want her to be alert and play some educational games....

so how? i was looking for few kindergarden to send her....the famous kindy are like smar readers, aulad genius, littlecaliphs,qdees and many more....this kindy are more like school kindy where they have to learn based on workbook.... i wanted to send her to montessori kindy...the method that they use are quite different whereby they dont teach like normal school...here in montessori, they play play play and sing sing sing...hihihihi....u can google that up.....so after looking at few options, i'v shortlisted 2 islamic montessori kindy

1) nuh ark islamic montessori, seksyen 7 shah alam
2) brainy bunch islamic montessori, seksyen 3 shah alam

after looking at both places, we decided to send anya to nuh ark...the fees is not that cheap...but hey, thats y i need to work right? to give my baby anya and adiy a better education.....lets see if anya do have some improvement after going to the new kindy...i hope she can mix around with other kids pretty well.....

Friday, January 27, 2012

lets parteyyyyyyy

this year gonna be a unique year for my beloved ones....

papa amir will turn 31 this 14 june.......8 days later,

adrianna will turn 3 this 22 june..... 8 days later,

adiy will turn 1 this 30 june!!!!!

did u see the magic number 3-1? its going to be a once in a live time event....poor mama cud not celebrate together as mama was bon in april....huhuhuhu

so i was planning to throw a memorable party for the 3 musketeers.....got lots of list to do before D-Day arrive.....lets see

1. location -> preferable Shah Alam
2. date - > 23 or 24 June 2012 (saturday or sunday)
3. theme -> barney? sesame street? power puff girls? ben10? upin ipin?
4. food - > still deciding...but its going to have lotsa deserts for sure!
5. invitation list -> family and close friends ard 50 ppl

did i miss anything else? dunno where to start....so many things to do and i'm so impatient to organise my first event!

oh, as an accountant, lets do some budget planning first ya...hope i wont burst the budget!

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

The Reasons


They are the reason to why i work like there's no tomorrow

They are the reason to why i feel extremely happy when i get back home although i'v been working like mad and stressed up during the day

They are the reason to my success

They are the reasons that keep me strong and going, no matter what


They are the reason to everything in my life!!!!

Mama loves both of u very much sayang....no matter whats going to happen in 5,10,15,20 or even 100 years from now, you will still be my baby Anya & baby Adiy...




Monday, January 16, 2012

Niat

Got this quote from FB comments and feels like sharing this with everybody

Kita, sebagai ibu-bapa menjaga anak dgn baik bukan kerana mengharapkan mereka jaga kita bila kita tua dan uzur, tapi atas nama Allah, utk keredhaanNya.

actually this applies to our life...in whatever we do, whats really matters is our intention ("niat")...if we do something for the sake to get return, then just forget it....coz when we did not get the return as expected, we feel sad and start complaining/comparing/mengungkit....eventually, u didnt get the pahala that was promised, but dosa instead.....

most parents raised their kids for the sake of raising and in return hoping that their kids will look after them when they r old....there are also parents who treats their children as investment...the more children u have, the more money u can collect when they started working :D ....others just raise their kids sincerely...they look after their kids like the kids are the most precious thing that they ever had....me? hmmmmmm, i love my kids more than anyone love theirs....hihihih...

but do i ever think or hoping them to take care of me when i'm old? -> sometimes, YES

do i ever think of them as an investment in order to get return during my old time? -> not really coz i'm planning for my retirement...i hope i wouldnt be a burden to my kids...insyaAllah....

will i complaint/mengungkit to my kids if later they refuse to help me? emmmmm...cant tell coz the time has yet to arrive...i just hope that when the time comes, i can be patience and redha for whatever it is.......

its time for me to keep on reminding myself that whatever we do, we HAVE TO DO IT SINCERELY!!!!!!!Lets set our niat straight and pure ppl!

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Dear kiddo,

I love u guys very much...i hope i can set a good example to your guys...i will do my level best to raise u in the best manner...i know that i may not be a perfect mother, but i'm learning to be one with the help of your dearest papa...forgive me if i may get carried away in scolding u, sometimes i just forgot that u are just kids....i pray that you will grow up to become soleh & solehah muslim, respect your elders and may success and happiness be with you always...aminnnn

Monday, January 2, 2012

Wishlist 2012

Happy New Year everybody!!!...i'm sure masing2 sibuk dengan azam dan wishlist masing2....for me, this year gonna be a different year for me....b4 this, i never feel the need to have such to-do list and wishlist for next year...but having a larger family (mind u its 4 of us now...hihihih), there's a lot of things to do and a lot of things to catch up.........

For instance, i feel that the time for me and my children are very limited....my day starts at 6.30am, left the house at 7.30am, reach office abt 8.30am, finish work at 7.00pm (only if i'm lucky, if not, it will be 10-11pm) and only managed to hug and kiss my babies at 8pm plus until they go to bed at 12 am....so weekdays, i only spend about 5 out of 24 hours or 21% with my children....wowwww.....29% for sleep and the balance of 50% for work!!!! thats very unhealthy....something has to be done! so my first wishlist and to-do list for year 2012 isssssssss:-

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TO RESIGN FROM MY CURRENT JOB AND SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY BELOVED FAMILY!


To achieve this, i have to come out with masterplan.....cannot simply2 resign tau....hahahaha...later how to feed my two little muchkins? so what are my plans????

1. to potty train Anya coz that would translate to saving of $$$$$

2. make sure I have sufficient money in MY accounts to sustain for the next 6 months

3. to invest my spare money (less the #1 above) in low risk investment; preferable ASB...currently my portfolio varies from stock market, unit trust, property...but as i'm not going to earn any income for the next few months, its better to invest in low risk portfolio

4. to start up on my next project/business...currently i have an online tupperware business. perhaps i may want to set up a small bakery shop with my bff! u know who u r! hahahahha...or i can start to do some freelance accounting work....emmm....that would be good idea...so who need accounting svs, pls call me! would be more than happy to assist u

5. to cut down on unnecessary expenses...lately i notice i like to spend spend and spend....for the last 3 months, my credit card statements showed balances of >Rm2k....phewwww....3 months in a row with that kind of expenses is scary man!!!! u must be wondering what did i spend for last 3 months...hahahaha.....so from now, no more coach, no more jewelry, no more Little White Cafe, no more babies (the production is temporarily put on halt and to be continued after 3 years) hahahahaha

6. to ensure my hubby's boss increase his salary by 20%...hihihihi

i guess that is all i need for me to take a short break from the corporate world...all i'm asking is 6-12 months break from the datelines, board paper, reporting, bursa malaysia and audit.....its tiring and driving me nuts at times.....