lets parteyyyyyyy

this year gonna be a unique year for my beloved ones....

papa amir will turn 31 this 14 june.......8 days later,

adrianna will turn 3 this 22 june..... 8 days later,

adiy will turn 1 this 30 june!!!!!

did u see the magic number 3-1? its going to be a once in a live time event....poor mama cud not celebrate together as mama was bon in april....huhuhuhu

so i was planning to throw a memorable party for the 3 musketeers.....got lots of list to do before D-Day arrive.....lets see

1. location -> preferable Shah Alam
2. date - > 23 or 24 June 2012 (saturday or sunday)
3. theme -> barney? sesame street? power puff girls? ben10? upin ipin?
4. food - > still deciding...but its going to have lotsa deserts for sure!
5. invitation list -> family and close friends ard 50 ppl

did i miss anything else? dunno where to start....so many things to do and i'm so impatient to organise my first event!

oh, as an accountant, lets do some budget planning first ya...hope i wont burst the budget!

The Reasons

They are the reason to why i work like there's no tomorrow

They are the reason to why i feel extremely happy when i get back home although i'v been working like mad and stressed up during the day

They are the reason to my success

They are the reasons that keep me strong and going, no matter what

They are the reason to everything in my life!!!!

Mama loves both of u very much sayang....no matter whats going to happen in 5,10,15,20 or even 100 years from now, you will still be my baby Anya & baby Adiy...

Niat

Got this quote from FB comments and feels like sharing this with everybody

Kita, sebagai ibu-bapa menjaga anak dgn baik bukan kerana mengharapkan mereka jaga kita bila kita tua dan uzur, tapi atas nama Allah, utk keredhaanNya.

actually this applies to our life...in whatever we do, whats really matters is our intention ("niat")...if we do something for the sake to get return, then just forget it....coz when we did not get the return as expected, we feel sad and start complaining/comparing/mengungkit....eventually, u didnt get the pahala that was promised, but dosa instead.....

most parents raised their kids for the sake of raising and in return hoping that their kids will look after them when they r old....there are also parents who treats their children as investment...the more children u have, the more money u can collect when they started working :D ....others just raise their kids sincerely...they look after their kids like the kids are the most precious thing that they ever had....me? hmmmmmm, i love my kids more than anyone love theirs....hihihih...

but do i ever think or hoping them to take care of me when i'm old? -> sometimes, YES

do i ever think of them as an investment in order to get return during my old time? -> not really coz i'm planning for my retirement...i hope i wouldnt be a burden to my kids...insyaAllah....

will i complaint/mengungkit to my kids if later they refuse to help me? emmmmm...cant tell coz the time has yet to arrive...i just hope that when the time comes, i can be patience and redha for whatever it is.......

its time for me to keep on reminding myself that whatever we do, we HAVE TO DO IT SINCERELY!!!!!!!Lets set our niat straight and pure ppl!

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Dear kiddo,

I love u guys very much...i hope i can set a good example to your guys...i will do my level best to raise u in the best manner...i know that i may not be a perfect mother, but i'm learning to be one with the help of your dearest papa...forgive me if i may get carried away in scolding u, sometimes i just forgot that u are just kids....i pray that you will grow up to become soleh & solehah muslim, respect your elders and may success and happiness be with you always...aminnnn

Wishlist 2012

Happy New Year everybody!!!...i'm sure masing2 sibuk dengan azam dan wishlist masing2....for me, this year gonna be a different year for me....b4 this, i never feel the need to have such to-do list and wishlist for next year...but having a larger family (mind u its 4 of us now...hihihih), there's a lot of things to do and a lot of things to catch up.........

For instance, i feel that the time for me and my children are very limited....my day starts at 6.30am, left the house at 7.30am, reach office abt 8.30am, finish work at 7.00pm (only if i'm lucky, if not, it will be 10-11pm) and only managed to hug and kiss my babies at 8pm plus until they go to bed at 12 am....so weekdays, i only spend about 5 out of 24 hours or 21% with my children....wowwww.....29% for sleep and the balance of 50% for work!!!! thats very unhealthy....something has to be done! so my first wishlist and to-do list for year 2012 isssssssss:-

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TO RESIGN FROM MY CURRENT JOB AND SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY BELOVED FAMILY!

To achieve this, i have to come out with masterplan.....cannot simply2 resign tau....hahahaha...later how to feed my two little muchkins? so what are my plans????

1. to potty train Anya coz that would translate to saving of $$$$$

2. make sure I have sufficient money in MY accounts to sustain for the next 6 months

3. to invest my spare money (less the #1 above) in low risk investment; preferable ASB...currently my portfolio varies from stock market, unit trust, property...but as i'm not going to earn any income for the next few months, its better to invest in low risk portfolio

4. to start up on my next project/business...currently i have an online tupperware business. perhaps i may want to set up a small bakery shop with my bff! u know who u r! hahahahha...or i can start to do some freelance accounting work....emmm....that would be good idea...so who need accounting svs, pls call me! would be more than happy to assist u

5. to cut down on unnecessary expenses...lately i notice i like to spend spend and spend....for the last 3 months, my credit card statements showed balances of >Rm2k....phewwww....3 months in a row with that kind of expenses is scary man!!!! u must be wondering what did i spend for last 3 months...hahahaha.....so from now, no more coach, no more jewelry, no more Little White Cafe, no more babies (the production is temporarily put on halt and to be continued after 3 years) hahahahaha

6. to ensure my hubby's boss increase his salary by 20%...hihihihi

i guess that is all i need for me to take a short break from the corporate world...all i'm asking is 6-12 months break from the datelines, board paper, reporting, bursa malaysia and audit.....its tiring and driving me nuts at times.....

Saya tak paham.....

Saya tak paham kenapa pada zaman serba canggih dan moden serta penuh dengan informasi ini orang masih menolak atau pandang serong terhadap breastfeeding???? apa salahnya kami para ibu nie nk cuba bagi yg terbaik utk anak2 kami dgn breastfeeding?

yer saya tahu saudara/saudari dah berjaya membesarkan anak masing2 dengan susu lembu dan susu soya pada zaman dahulu kala and every single children that u had, turn out ok...semua berjaya dengan kerjaya masing2 hasil dari susu lembu dan susu soya tadi...TAHNIAH! WELL DONE! MARVELLOUS!

salah kah saya nk cuba pendekatan lain utk membesarkan anak saya? salah kah saya kalo terpaksa menyusahkan org lain untuk memanaskan susu yg telah diperah dan diberikan kepada anak saya? atau salahkan saya memanaskan susu yang telah di perah kedalam peti ais kerana dikhuatiri susu tersebut menjadi tidak elok dan akhirnya memudaratkan anak saya? salahkah saya untuk mencuba memberikan 111% usaha untuk fully breastfeed anak saya?

apa salah saya sebenarnya????... saya mencuba dan mencuba dan mencuba...akan tetapi bila ada org disekeliling yang cuba mematahkan semangat dan niat baik saya ini, saya jadi sedih dan demotivated....luckily i have a supportive family, especially my hubby yang tidak penah jemu menyokong saya dalam usaha saya untuk terus breastfeed adiy..... dikala saya hampir putus asa, hubby la yang akan memberikan kata-kata semangat utk teruskan usaha murni saya...walaupun adiy tidaklah fully breastfeed, tapi at least at the age of 5 months, he still continue to breastfeed.....harap2 lebih lama dari anya yang berhenti breastfeed at the age of 8-9 months....

kepada org2 diluar sana, lets go back to the nature......mothers' milk is the best for their children....if you dont want to support breastfeed, pls keep it to urself.... dont go around and say something to demotivate other ppl just because u had successfully raised ur kids with cow's milk and soy's milk....it wont do u any harm to just see the beauty side of breastfeeding...thats all...TQ!

Breaking Dawn

Tak abis-abis lagi pasal Twilight Saga nie...sabar yer uols....mak excited nieeee...lets continue with Breaking Dawn a.k.a BD....hahahahaha....so BD was released on 24.11.2011 in Malaysia....being a diehard fan, i really wanted to make it on the first day...but was disappointed coz the only available seats was at the first 2 rows....haih.....i dun want to waste my money and feeling by watching the movie i longggg for one year like that....its better be late than dissatisfied right?

So i'v asked my sister to book 2 tickets on tuesday at 2.45 pm...hoping that my dearest hubby could accompany me to watch BD.....suddenly hubby got other arrangement that day...one of his colleague is leaving the company and they r having farewell lunch for him at subang...so he cant come back in time for the movie.... huhuhuhu.....if it was another movie, i will just skip it...but this is not any ordinary movie...its BREAKING DAWNNNN...i could not just skip it....hahahahaha......

So i was determined to go and watch the movie alone, by MYSELF....when i was about to leave the house, my daughter was screaming like nobody business.....MAMAAAAA....NAK IKUTTTTTT....MAMA NAK IKUTTTTTTTTTTTTTT.....hati ibu mana yg tak tersentuh bila anak meraung2 macam tu kan.....so i went back inside the house, changed anya's pampers and make some milk for her, then we r ready to go.....but i was wondering whether anya will be allowed inside the cinema as she is just 2y.o.....i prayed hard that her age is not an issue or else i'l have to watch BD another time.....

luckily the attendant doesnt say anything abt anya...afterall, i paid for 2 adults ticket.....hehehehe.....FYI, this is actually anya's second time watching movie at the cinema...her first movie was "Eclipse", when she was only one and half y.o...hahahahaha....her next movie will definitely be BD Part II.....she was well behave during the entire movie....i think its because of the darkness...she's kind of afraid of the dark......

As anya is very well behaved, i managed to watch BD peacefully with deep feelings...hahahaha...jiwang gitewwww......but overall, i like BD very much....the small but eventful wedding, the wedding gown, the handsome edward cullen, their honeymoon, the macho Jacob, should i say the pretty Bella? emmmm...nahhhhhh.....ahahahaha....i love everything about BD...but i dun think they should cut the part where bella gave birth to renesmee....its like there was a missing link there....the baby suddenly pop out from nowhere....however, kudos to the BD team for producing such a wonderful movie!!!!

CANT WAIT FOR BD PART II!!!!!

Twilight Saga

at last....the most awaited movie of the year had reached Malaysia.....i'v been waiting to watch this movie since last year......the first saga - Twilight caught my attention from the first time i saw it in HBO...that was about 2 weeks before the release of New Moon.....i never had enough with Twilight....FYI, i'v watched twilight approx 10 times in that year alone....phewwwww....

I still remember watching Twilight for the first time....it was around 11pm....my husband n daughter fall asleep leaving me alone watching the vampire movie...being a timid lady, i hesitate to watch the movie as it mentioned the word "vampire" in the info section.....but the info also did say that its a love story.....so vampire and love story wouldn't be that scary, would it?



at the end of the story, i quickly text my baby brother....asked him whether he had download the twilight sequel....hahahahaha....how impatient i was that time.....he told me that the sequel "New Moon" will only be release in couple of weeks....i cant wait any longer, so i go n grab the 4 twilight saga novel by Stephenie Meyer.....MEMANG BETUL2 BESTTTTTT....

New Moon and Eclipse movie wasn't up to my expectation....the storyline, the overdo make up of Edward and how they failed to highlight or include some of important scene in the movie was unacceptable!!!! I was hoping that they could improvised in their next sequel which is Breaking Dawn......and my comments for Breaking Dawn are:-

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wait for my next entry will ya! ;P