keja salah tak keja pun salah

nie sbnrnya dah mmg takde mood nk keja dah.....macam2 hal la dipikirkan....pk pasal anya yg dok teriak bila anta g nursery, pk pasal adiy yg kat umah nunn, pk pasal keja yg tak penah nk abis-abis.....

nk resign nnti takde duit, bila tak resign tension je memanjang...cane? lu pikir la sendiri!

Mood : Tensi

Alamak...mood tension dah nak mai dah...esok kena keja dah!!!!!...huarghhhhh...i'll be missing my baby Adiy very much.....Anya takpe...nursery dia dekat ngn my ofis...at the moment, Adiy will be under my mom's supervision....hheheh...sampai la umur dia besar sket either 3 or 6 months...pastu nnti Adiy kena ikut kakak Anya g nursery ok.....

Masa g cucuk Adiy utk 2nd month injection, paed Adiy ckp nk anta nursery tu, survey dulu 5-6 nursery...then baru pilih mana kita rasa ok.....last month alone ada 4 cases baby tersedak susu....kalo tak silap, 2 in putra, 1 in puchong n 1 in shah alam...whereabout tu, i dunno la plak.....yg paling sedih paed nie citer, sorg mak tu asyik balik lmbt...amik anak dia dlm kul 7 lebih...this particular day, dia rasa tak sedap hati...ingat nk balik awal amik anak dia....4.30 ptg dia dah dlm keta nk g amik anak dia, dlm perjalanan dia dpt call from hospital cakap anak dia dah takde lagi....huhuhuhuh...sedihnya.......

susah la jadik working mom nie....mana nk pesah pasal keja, mana nk pesah pasal anak plak...kalo tak jadik pape kat anak, ok la kan...pastu jgn dok g brag kat org lain plak dulu dia jaga anak smpi 10 org takde pape pun berlaku plak.....benda2 camni, bukan kehendak kita dan bukan kita rancang pun.....dah nk jadik....tak jadik kat awak, bleh la awk ckp macam2.....sekarang nie, pape pun kita kena take precaution....kalo leh, kita elakkan dari kejadian2 tak elok nie berlaku.....

as for me, leaving my baby with my mom is the only option that i have currently...luckily my mom have a maid...without maid, i dont see myself leaving my baby with my mom coz i know its not easy to take care of baby....tambah2 lagi bila umur dah semakin meningkat....although i need to travel 2 hours daily (to and fro Putrajaya to Shah Alam), but knowing that my baby is in the safe hand, its all worth it....but i only plan to leave him with her for only a shortwhile....in the meantime, i will try to look for a trustworthy babysitter or nursery to look after Adiy.....worst come to worst, just resign lar...hahahaha...senang jer cakap kan.....

my boss ckp nk amik sorg lagi staff january nie...hopefully with the new addition to the office, it will reduce the department's workload tremendously..... i'm sooo looking forward to go back home at 6pm sharp... (actually nk letak 5.30pm, tp rasa cam melampau kot...hehehehe)

Breastfeeding

Sapa cakap breastfeed senang? susah tau...especially for first timer......susah satu, pastu masa memula mmg sakit sgt sampai leh menyebabkan kita give up to continue to breastfeed.......I manage to breastfeed anya (non exclusively) for 8-9 months.....i hope i can breastfeed adiy exclusively for 6 months....tapi sbb adiy kuat minum, i campurkan jugak dgn FM...but i make sure that max of 2 FM bottles be given to Adiy per day...sometimes, i manage to fully BF adiy for few days....selamat duit papa n mama utk belikan susu Adiy...

Susu adiy ni tak murah tau...rege dlm rm80+ for 900gram....kali nie, i'm using Nestle Nan-Pro HA - HA stands for Hypoallergic....nie recommended by Anya's pediatrician coz seeing Anya's having a mild eczema, he suggested that Adiy use the HA milk...if you want to know more about the benefit of this milk, click to this link .... Masa Anya dulu, i'm using Abott Similac...rege pun leh tahan cam rege susu Adiy skang...tp sbb masa Anya dulu, byk pakai FM dari BM, so terasa la duit kuar laju....utk satu tin susu 900 gram tu, tahan 10 hari jer...tu masa dia umur sebulan...naik 2 bulan lebih, seminggu je dah abis....imagine how much money flown away just for the milk.....

For Adiy, i'm trying my best to feed him with BM...so far, dah 2 bulan lebih ni, i cuma baru beli 2 tin susu Nan Pro HA...hehehhee...bangga mmg bangga....satu sbb Adiy dpt susu natural lagi byk dari susu tepung....second sebab duit yg dijimatkan tu boleh buat beli benda lain...

raising kids is not easy....as parents, we always want the best for our children...thats y, mana yg boleh jimat, kita jimatkan.....invest more money on their education...not on their branded cloths or shoes or gadgets....hehehehe...but sometimes, bila ada extra money, we can buy those things...but not everytime k.....i cant deny that branded things usually associated with a good quality product....its true..tapi tgk poket jugak la...kalo mampu, apa salahnya...kalo tak, pakai brand biasa2 pun ok whatttt...hihihihi.....

haiii...next monday dah start masuk keja...skang kena make sure i pump enough milk for Adiy....hopefully balik keja nnti takde la kena blk lewat sgt......"encik boss, boleh tak nanti jangan tahan sy utk buat keja lama2? saya rindu dekat anak2 saya ler".....hehehe.....rasanya my boss akan cakap camni..... "bolehhhh...boleh blahhhhh" ....ayoyoyoyo

Happy "ME" time

Lepas confinement period, macam2 rasa nk buat utk indulge kan diri yg satu nie....so far yg dah tercapai baru "facial".... hair treatment & body scrub belum sempat nk buat....tapi dah beli Papaya body scrub from BodyShop...tgh tggu masa yg sesuai utk scrubbing coz takde org nk tgk Adiy...so kena tggu Papa cuti baru leh buat...last weekend papa ada job pasang cctv...so dua2 hari weekend mmg Papa sibuk ngn cctv tu....petang ahad plak g berbuka rumah mak tok.....

oh lupa...entry kali nie nk citer pasal facial...dah lama rasanya tak buat facial....last one was few years back....hahahhaa...lama kan....so ari sabtu aritu my sis ckp nk g buat facial...dia buat kat aster spring and now they have promotion buy one free one at RM198.....emmmm....nmpk cam mahal kan...tapi sbb muka dah kering giler (akibat tak cuci muka selama 44 hari), so i decided to go with it......

Pengalaman facial kat situ best.....takde picit2 jerawat...ada la picit blackhead sket....so takde rasa scary sgt....(mind u i have needle-phobia, picit2-phobia and bumper phobia)..dia buat urutan muka n neck.....lepas facial, rasa refresh....kulit muka pun dah tak kering sgt.....dah ada moisture....lembut pun lembut...heheheheh....sbb happy with the result, i'v signed up the Rm600 promotion....phewwwww....guna duit bonus yg tinggal baper sen tu lagi....heheheh.....bila bgtau papa, dia ckp "haaaaaaa...rm600 utk facial?" hahahaha...rileks....its not a one time facial yg harga rm600....promotion tu dpt 4 kali facial, 3 kali eye treatment, 3 kali neck treatment and 50% discount on any treatment on my birthday month....so ok kot kan? Pape pun, i will recommend ppl to go there.....best walaupun agak pricey....and they use dermatologica product....i tot of changing my current cleansing product to dermatologica....kite try dulu samples yg dia bg...kalo ok, baru beli....kalo tak, just stick with the current one....heheheh

next agenda -> hair treatment before raya....rambut pun dah panjang...so kena kasik potong sket utk another refreshing look.....k...byeeee

The end of the Confinement Period

Today marks Adiy's 44th day which also means the end on my confinement period...phewwww.....2mr, i can eat, go shopping and do what i want to do.....yeayyyyy.....during confinement period i only eat kingfish (ikan tenggiri), grill meat and sup sawi.....boring betul.....but one thing i cant miss is my kitkat...i never heard that u cant eat chocs during confinement, meaning i can have my kit kat right? tapi if u said cant, i dah belasah dah pun....every alternate day i must hv my kitkat...itu je la mknn yg dpt mengumbirakan hati ini....masa time pantang anya pun i eat kitkat during confinement...hehehhe...i mmg hantu chocolate.....

so lets see....what do i want to hv for my raya 2mr? hahahah....i'm craving for popcorn, aunty's anne pretzel and last but not least, secret recipe carrot cake...yummyyyyy......i'm thinking whether i shud make creampuff or bread pudding for 2mr's breakfast....emmmmmm.....let me thing and let u know later k.....tata

Baby gifts

One month before adiy lahir, I dok risau mcm2 especially pasal baju dia yg belum dibeli...nk recycle yg kakak adiy punya, mmg takleh sgt coz 90% daripada baju anya is pink colour....so kalo leh, tanak la adiy pakai pink sgt kan....hehehe

until the date of the operation, I tak beli sehelai pun baju adiy...huhuhu...tak sempat sgt coz too many work...nk tido pun time tu mmg tak sempat.....sib baik ada sehelai dua baju anya yg kaler putih...so leh gak buat pakai balik dari hospital.....

at 42 days, adiy punya baju sekarang lagi byk dari mama dah rasanya....i think adiy got over 30 helai baju....dari size newborn sampai la umur 2 tahun...save duit I takyah beli baju byk2 kat adiy....hahhaha...alhamdullilah....so let me list down apa baby gift yg adiy dpt utk dijadikan rujukan in case uols nk bagi baby gift to ur frens:-

1. Baju & seluar (including rompers) (over 30 helai)
2. toileteries (brand johnson&johnson, kiko, anakku & pureen) - barang nie, anya punya dulu pun smpi skang tak abis2 lagi...hahahaha
3. botol susu (ada dlm 5 botol)
4. kasut (2 pasang)
5. beg susu (3 biji)
6. barang2 lain such as towel, baby bowl
7. last but not least...money money money (amount dirahsiakan) hahahaha

okie...that's all...next time kalo uols rasa taktau nk bagi pe kat kawan uols yg beranak, bagi je la duit, tapi kalo rasa cam tak sesuai, bagi je baju....kalo nk lain dari yg lain, beli kan je gift utk mama dia....heheheheh....utk mama dia, leh beli byk benda....hehhehehe....

On investment

Asyik ckp pasal anya & adiy je, arini kita tukar citer plak...pasal investing....dlm dunia yg serba mata duitan nie, kite kena pandai invest...naper kita kena invest? sbb every year, ada inflation, bila ada inflation, harga barang2 akan naik (dlm 5-10% setahun)...kalo nk harapkan duit gaji (yg naiknyer kekadang tak smpi 5% pun), cane kita nk maintain kehidupan kita.....

kita leh invest dlm byk instrument, depending on our risk apetite...some of the investment are VERY RISKY (ie. equity), whilst some of the investment are less risky (ie. unit trust, properties) and some with no risk (ie deposits-ASB).

Some people said its better to diversify, some ppl said its better to NOT diversify...to me, its better if we diversify coz if sumthing happen to one of our investment, we still have back up on other investments....therefore, my advise is NEVER PUT ALL UR EGGS IN ONE BASKET! its dangerous...

At 30 years old, i'v invested in equity, unit trust, properties, gold, asb and even venture into small business....based on my tiny experience, i found that timing is the most crucial element in our investment...you must know when to enter and when to exit the investment...dont get to greedy coz greed can eat you up....this applies to all investment above except for no risk investment such as ASB....

i'll tell you more abt my investment so far in my next post k